Opportunity

February 27th, 2005

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A green bird darting in the night.
Will you be able to see it?
Will you be able to catch it?

Cling to Tao like a shadow.
Move without a shadow.

Times of oppression and adversity cannot last forever. How is the transition made to new and better situations? In the midst of great difficulty, a tiny opportunity will open, if only by chance. You must be sharp enough to discern it, quick enough to catch it, and determined enough to do something with it. If you let it pass, you will be filled with regrets.

Stick to Tao like a shadow. Wherever it goes, you go. As soon as it throws something your way, catch it by sheer reflex. It is like the bird: If you try to catch it, you will miss. If you are always with it, moving at its speed as much a part of it as its own shadow, then it is easy to seize it.

When you act, however, you in turn must have no shadow. In other words, what you do must leave no messages, no leftover consequences, nothing that will haunt you later. That is one of the ways in which you avoid creating more bad situations for yourself: Your every movement is traceless.

Deng Ming-Dao, 365 Tao

68. Opportunities

The greatest martial arts are the gentlest. They allow an attacker the opportunity to fall down. The greatest generals do not rush into every battle. They offer the enemy many opportunities to make self-defeating errors. The greatest administrators do not achieve production through constrainsts and limitations. They provide opportunities.

Good leadership consists of motivating people to their highest levels by offering them opportunities, not obligations. That is how things happen naturally. Life is an opportunity, not an obligation.

John Heider, The Tao of Leadership

No, the Chinese symbol for crisis is not the same as that for opportunity. See Pinyin.info or
Straight Dope for the details. I’m really tired of this myth. But it is true that when things seem very difficult, you have to look for any opportunity to change how things are going, and be ready to act on it.

I’ve had many wonderful opportunities in my life. I have few regrets about not taking an opportunity, although leaving traces, messiness and consequences from my own actions has left me with regrets. That is a part of Tao where I still need to do much more work.

Predilection

February 26th, 2005

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Those who follow Tao do so
From their own predilection.
There are no promises,
Yet the rewards are immeasurable.

Of all the spiritual traditions, following Tao is among the least popular. Its adherents are poor and veiled with humility. In comparison, many traditions offer heaven, forgiveness, comfort, ecstasy, belonging, power, and wealth. Tao offers only three things: sound health, a way through the bewilderment of life, and liberation from the fear of death.

That is why there are so few followers of Tao. There is no glamour, there is no congregation, there is no ranking. You are either in the state of Tao, or you are temporarily out of it. When you die, you die.

You have to be tough to follow Tao. If you can avoid being discouraged by poverty, isolation, and obscurity, you will find an unshakable devotion that will last your entire life, and rewards will come in slow and subtle ways. You may not be suddenly rich and influential, but you will discover, to your great delight, that there is a secret source of sustenance. Once you taste that, all your doubts will fade, and both poverty and loneliness will be easier to bear.

Deng Ming-Dao, 365 Tao

Main Entry: pre·di·lec·tion
Pronunciation: pre-d&l-’ek-sh&n
Function: noun
Etymology: French prédilection, from Medieval Latin praediligere to love more, prefer, from Latin prae- + diligere to love — more at DILIGENT
: an established preference for something;
an attitude of mind that predisposes one to favor something. PREDILECTION implies a strong liking deriving from one’s temperament or experience

Merriam-Webster

Predilection is a good word to apply to Tao, a diligent love. You have to be a bit diligent to get into a state where you feel Tao, but once you are there, it’s a wonderful feeling. It does make so many things in life easier to bear, and you feel much calmer and more able to cope with things.

When we were in Hawaii, one of the things we wanted to do was see the lava flow on the big island. We had to drive a long ways, then walk several miles over the lava to where it was flowing. There were places we could see the hot lava in cracks beneath our feet. But when we finally got out there to see the lava flowing into the sea, it was amazing. We sat for a long time just watching the glowing lava, watching new earth being created, seeing the water trying to extinguish the fire and rising off as steam. It was the coming together of earth, fire, water and air that made it so intriguing.

Tao is a lot like that. After a while, you begin to see the connections between things, the way that things change over time, new things being created as old things seem to die off. You know the cycles of plants and how they grow from a seed and return to many seeds. You wach your own kids grow up, yourself grow old, and all the changes of life, and are no longer afraid of changes, but come to embrace them.

Tao is spiritual, but it is not religious. There’s no dogma to learn, no promises of life after death or talk about gods and how we “know” they exist or any of that. There is only the observance of life and death and how it all works together, how the world around you changes. Science fits in beautifully with the Tao, with no contradictions. Tao fits with whatever you observe in life, and you can go back and find it in the Tao. Things you never understood seem to become clearer. You find yourself not striving for wealth anymore, because there’s little you can buy that you want or need. You don’t care about fame, because there isn’t anything you want from it. Loneliness isn’t a problem – you are always with Tao, unless you fall out of it for a bit. Usually that happens when someone or something interrupts you or distracts you. So it is a pretty happy state of mind, really.

Friday Cat Blogging

February 25th, 2005

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Spring has sprung

February 24th, 2005

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Spring is in the air in San Diego – the freesia are blooming, the birds are singing, the sun is shining after all that rain. It’s all so gorgeous….

ahhh….

There is no elephant in the room….

February 24th, 2005

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A must read

February 23rd, 2005

Daily Kos :: The Rise of Rove’s Republic

Best summary I have seen of where we are right now – go read.

Adversity

February 23rd, 2005

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A tree hemmed in by giants.
Requires tenacity to survive.

Times of adversity inevitably confront us all. We are denied influence, people will not listen to what we have to say, and we are restricted by circumstance. In this situation, followers of Tao must rely on their determination. Without that, they cannot emerge successfully from the danger.

During times of adversity, vision and determination decide the outcome. Mere doggedness never served anyone well. Observe carefully, and try to act. If you find yourself tested by the situation, take comfort in that fact that adversity frequently forces on to consolidate one’s resources. You can often emerge from adversity stronger than before. Don’t be overcome by fear. Take calculated risk if you must, or face danger if you have to. If your mind is focused to the utmost, you will triumph.

Without the difficulty of being hemmed in, the tree in the forest would not be forced to marshal its power to grow toward the light. It must truly bring forth all its inner strength to spread its branches. If it becomes grand, it is in part because of its suffering. Thus the times of adversity can be crucial to the development of one’s inner personality.

Deng Ming-Dao, 365 Tao

Adversity has the effect of eliciting talents
which in prosperous circumstances
would have lain dormant.

– Horace(Quintus Horatius Flaccus), Satires

Adversity is like a strong wind. It tears away from us all but the things that cannot be torn, so that we see ourselves as we really are. — Arthur Golden, Memoirs of a Geisha

Adversity is the state
in which man most easily
becomes acquainted with himself,
being especially free of admirers then.

– Samuel Johnson

People are like stained – glass windows.
They sparkle and shine when the sun is out,
but when the darkness sets in,
there true beauty is revealed
only if there is a light from within.

– Elizabeth Kubler Ross

There is in every true woman’s heart a spark of heavenly fire, which lies dormant in the broad daylight of prosperity; but which kindles up, and beams and blazes in the dark hour of adversity. — Washington Irving, The Sketch Book, 1820

One source I was reading today suggested we must deal with adversity like an oyster deals with a grain of sand, and turn it into a pearl. Perhaps this works for the small irritants in life. Take those things that grate on your nerves, and see if you can coat them in something beautiful, eventually making lovely pearls from them.

But what of those larger problems, too big to turn into pearls? Well, how big is the problem, really?

If you break your neck, if you have nothing to eat, if your house is on fire, then you got a problem. Everything else is inconvenience. ~Robert Fulghum

I have a friend who broke her neck as a teen and spent months in bed. Nothing else seemed important during that time for me than supporting my friend, visiting her daily and keeping her spirits up. My own health has always been pretty good compared to that. Even in the worst of my mental health problems, I was loved and cared for. I’ve never been hungry for more than a day in my life. I have an artist friend whose home has burned down twice now. Watching her deal with it, I’ve learned possessions are not important, even those we have worked so hard to create. Her art still lives, even though every bit of it was destroyed, twice.

How big are your problems, really? Can’t most of them be turned into pearls?

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Quotes on adversity

imbalance

February 22nd, 2005

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Sleepless nights.
Diet, mind, conditions.
Hold the possibility of correction.

Whenever you feel out of sorts, or cannot sleep, or find it hard to work and think, you are separated from Tao. If you want to get back i touch with it, ask yourself three questions: Am I eating right? Is my mind tamed? Is my world safe?

It is not facetious to look at the way you eat whenever you feel out of step with life. Many problems can be alleviated by feeling better physically, and even if this doesn’t remedy things, it will give you a good basis for coping. Eat a balanced diet rich in nutrients. Take the time to understand proper nutrition and eat a large variety of foods according to the seasons. The skillful use of foods is far superior to medicine.

Next is the difficult mind that seems to have its own interests, habits, and excesses. The only way to counter this is to guard against worry, stress, intellectualism, scheming, and desires. This can only happen through a strong philosophical grounding and by methodical meditation.

Finally, environmental factors such as weather, natural and man-made disasters, and socioeconomic problems can break our unity with Tao. To cope with this, gain as much control over your environment as possible. Keep your home a haven, have control over your work place, and be independent enough to face emergencies. It is inevitable that one will fall in and out of Tao. The wise arrange their lives so that they can always return to balance.

Deng Ming-Dao, 365 Tao

The Tao is the One.
From the One come yin and yang;
From these two, creative energy (chi);
From energy, ten thousand things,
The forms of all creation.
All life embodies yin
And embraces yang,
Through their union
Achieving harmony.

- Tao Te Ching, Chapter 42

The Tao of heaven
Is like drawing a bow
Lower that which is high
Raise that which is low
Reduce that which is excessive
Add to that which is insufficient

- Tao Te Ching, Chapter 77

I’ve been very out of balance in the last few days. The kids have been off school, my husband off on a vacation day. It throws me off to not have time to be by myself, meditating or just being alone. The weather has been rainy and gray, which hasn’t helped. In good weather I can always escape into the garden. In the rain I’m stuck inside with everyone.

I like the feeling of being alone lately, more so than being around other people. Most people in our society are so out of balance that it can really throw me off to be around them. We had a friend over for dinner Sunday night who is leaving her job, and she seems so much happier and freer. When I’ve seen her before she was often stressed out, and now she smiles and laughs and seems so happy.

I don’t have the work stress right now, which is great. But dealing with two teenagers and a husband are stressful as well. The kids are learning independence, but are not able to be on their own yet, so it is a difficult time for them.

So, back to getting into balance again. Eating my omelets and salmon, getting my exercise, etc. And working on my mind, the perpetual challenge….

Beauty

February 19th, 2005

Lavender roses.
Incarnate fragrance,
Priestly hue of dawn,
Spirit unfolding.

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Even on the road to hell, flowers can make you smile. They are fragile, ephemeral, uncompromising. No one can alter their nature. True, you can easily destroy them, but you will not gain anything; you cannot force them to submit to your will.

Flowers arouse in us an instinct to protect them, to appreciate them, and to shelter them. This world is too ugly, too violent. There should be something delicate to care about. To do so is to be lifted above the brute and to go toward the refined. When we offer flowers on our altar, we are offering a high gift. Money is too vulgar, food too pedestrian. Only flowers are unsullied. By offering them, we offer purity.

The tenderness of flowers arouses mercy, compassion, and understanding. If that beauty is delicate, so much the better. Life itself is fleeting. We should take the time to appreciate beauty in the midst of temporality.

Deng Ming-Dao, 365 Tao

My golden retriever loves to eat my roses. If I’m in the yard pruning them, he will follow me around just so I’ll toss him the flowers and he can eat them. I love my roses, as I love all my plants, and I’m grateful to Laura who taught me I could grow them organically so I would be able to fit them into my organic garden. I think I have a couple dozen rose bushes now.

Flowers are important to me, as are all sources of beauty. They are indeed a reprieve from trouble and worry, and tending them has grown to be a joy for me. I hope I will always have a garden to tend, and a golden retriever to eat my roses.

It’s more than just math – knowledge vs. certainty

February 19th, 2005

Pharyngula::It’s more than just math

“The real problem is that so many people want the shortcut to the “right” answer (although students will change their tune when it’s a matter of me going blind this weekend trying to decipher chicken scratches in blue books to give partial credit for applying the right method to a genetics problem, even if the final answer was off.) It’s Bronowski’s conflict between knowledge and certainty: most people prefer certainty, especially when knowledge might give them an answer they don’t like. And they especially favor certainty when it requires nothing more than learning a single datum, rather than the work it takes to do a calculation or derivation or document a chain of evidence.”

This is exactly the division in America right now between the left and the right. The right want to be certain of everything – God exists, he told us how to live, Keynes and Adam Smith told us all we need to know about economics, parenting is just a matter of telling your kids to just say no to sex, drugs and rock and roll. The left want to learn and want to know how things really work in the world. They are open to thought, to experimentation, to trying something and seeing if it works. Who is more adaptable to change? Who is more adaptable to the realities of the world? Who will be able to lead us into the future, where so many things are unknown and unknowable? I think that’s pretty clear.

Death

February 18th, 2005

Death is
The opposite
Of time.

We give death metaphors. We cloak it in meaning and make up stories about what will happen to us, but we don’t really know. When a person dies, we cannot see beyond the corpse. We speculate on reincarnation or talk in terms of eternity. But death is opaque to us, a mystery. In its realm, time ceases to have meaning. All laws of physics become irrelevant. Death is the opposite of time.

What dies? Is anything actually destroyed? Certainly not the body, which falls into its constituent parts of water and chemicals. That is mere transformation, not destruction. What of the mind? Does it cease to function, or does it make a transition to another existence? We don’t know for sure, and few can come up with anything conclusive.

What dies? Nothing of the person dies in the sense that the constituent parts are totally blasted from all existence. What dies is merely the identity, the identification of a collection of parts that we called a person. Each one of us is a role, like some shaman wearing layers of robes with innumerable fetishes of meaning. Only the clothes and decoration fall. What dies is only our human meaning. There is still someone naked underneath. Once we understand who that someone is, death no longer bothers us. Nor does time.

Deng Ming-Dao, 365 Tao

“When you are born, you cry, and the world rejoices. When you die, you rejoice, and the world cries”.

– Ancient Tibetan Buddhist saying

Men flow into life, and ebb into death.

Some are filled with life;
Some are empty with death;
Some hold fast to life, and thereby perish,
For life is an abstraction.

Those who are filled with life
Need not fear tigers and rhinos in the wilds,
Nor wear armour and shields in battle;
The rhinoceros finds no place in them for its horn,
The tiger no place for its claw,
The soldier no place for a weapon,
For death finds no place in them.

– Lao Tsu, Tao Te Ching

I think Lao Tsu’s message is pretty clear – be filled with life, and you have nothing to fear from death. My own personal belief on death is pretty similar. I think what we “lose” at death is the sense of being an individual, and that we flow as “spirits” back into the universal energy, whatever it is. Whatever you believe or suspect happens after death, even if it is that there is nothing after death, life is an amazing experience and living it fully, being fully aware and awake, is a wonderful choice.

For those who are suffering, life can be merely pain, though. Death for them may be a release from suffering and pain. That’s why I think if people who are very ill wish to die, they should be allowed to do so. Keeping someone alive against their will is to imprison their soul or spirit. And I don’t think there is any hell for those who take their own lives, or even for those who do evil.

I rather like the Hindu and Buddhist idea of reincarnating people according to how they lived, but like hell, it is likely just wishful thinking. Living well and doing well for others is its own reward, and there are legal means for dealing with those who act to hurt others. Putting some to death for their crimes satisfies our need for revenge, but I don’t think it discourages many criminals.

Whatever else, death is final for our lives as this particular individual. I don’t think there’s any heaven we go to where we stay this person forever and live with those we have loved. I think coming to terms with that is probably difficult for most people. They like the illusion that there is a place just for them and their friends. But it is illusion. Death is a transformation into something else, and what that is, nobody really knows.

My baby

February 17th, 2005

Aww…

Impermanence

February 15th, 2005

Tidal windstorm
Splits trees and rock,
Yet cannot last a day.
So much less, man’s work.

When a storm hits, an entire ocean of wind and rain is spent upon the land. Leaves are turned inside out, branches are torn, and even hard granite is worn away. But such gales seldom last and entire day. In spite of the tremendous amount of force that is released, the storm cannot last.

If heaven’s works cannot last a day, human works must be even less lasting. Governments barely survive from year to year, the rules of society are constantly being challenged, the family erodes, personal relationships decay, and one’s career topples. Even the monuments of the world are now being destroyed by air pollution and neglect. Nothing lasts. It is simple fact that no event set in motion by human beings lasts forever.

All our efforts are temporary. They borrow from preexisting forces, ride the current of natural events, and disappear according to the dictates of the situation. It is best to realize the transitory nature of things and work with it. Understanding the world’s ephemeral nature can be the biggest advantage of all.

Deng Ming-Dao, 365 Tao

The impermanence of all forms is the starting point of Buddhism. The Buddha taught that ‘all compounded things are impermanent’, and that all suffering in the world arises from our trying to cling to fixed forms – objects, people or ideas – instead of accepting the world as it moves and changes. -Fritjof Capra, The Tao of Physics, p211

Learning impermanence was (and is) a very difficult thing for me. To lose my parents to death, to lose friends over our differences and experience their lack of compassion for my suffering their absence, to lose my youth, all these things were great losses to me. It has taken a long time to accept that nothing is permanent, that all things change in time. I will grow old and die, my husband and kids will as well, and so on. Nothing in this life is permanent.

The up side is, the hard times and the things that seem like terrible evils in the world are not permanent, either. There are no situations that will not change in time, even seemingly intractable ones. People will die, others will take their place and feel differently, experience the world differently. Sometimes change may take many generations, but it does happen. And eventually, inevitably, all of us will be gone from this world.

Which is a good thing. Who wants to live forever? It would be quite sad, really, seeing this earth consumed in the inevitable ball of fire as the sun explodes.

Are you ready to give it all away?

February 14th, 2005

Christianity

It seems as long as we’re sin-conscious enough, we can identify ourselves as Christians. A good friend of mine, a minister, used to do a funny imitation of the “holiness movement” of his boyhood. Screwing his face into a righteous scowl, he’d declare, “Bless God, I don’t swear, drink, smoke, spit or chew or go with those who do, and I don’t play cards, dance or go to movies!” Conversely, we could add the positives: “I go to church regularly, tithe, vote for every “family-values” legislation I’ve been told is right, and even my minivan is sanctified by a chrome fish.” And it’s a wonder that so few have noticed that in the life and teaching of Jesus in the gospels, this exaggerated sin-consciousness is peculiarly absent — except among the religious fellows whom Jesus corrects for missing the point, or for their hypocrisy. But today also, the question is rarely considered as to whether living for such distinctions really has anything to do with compassion for your fellows or delight in God. Often it comes from clinging allegiance to an abstraction, a code of “Christian conduct.” Dead. But the problem really reminds me of the man who ran up to Jesus, fell to his knees and said, “Good Rabbi, what must I do to gain eternal life?” Jesus raised up a question mark against his notion of goodness and gave him what Zen Buddhists might call a koan:

“Why do you call me good? No one is good except God alone.” Jesus continued:
“You know the commandments: Do not murder; Do not commit adultery; Do not steal; Do not bear false witness; Do not defraud; Honor your father and mother.” The man said, “Rabbi, all these have I kept since I was a boy.” And Jesus, looking at him, loved him and said, “There is one thing you lack: go, sell all you have and give it to the poor, and you will have heavenly treasure; then come and follow me.” When the man heard this his face clouded over and he went away sick at heart, for he was a man who had large estates. And Jesus looked around at his disciples and said, “Children, how hard it is for the rich to enter the kingdom of God. It is easier for a camel to go through the eye of a needle than for a rich man to enter the kingdom of God.”

What is good? Jesus ignored the man’s claims to following an abstract code and asked the man to do one thing based on true compassion instead of moral conceptualism. And, you want to know eternal life? A camel doesn’t get through the eye of a needle unless it becomes nothing. Jesus told his followers. “Unless your righteousness is deeper than the righteousness of the scribes [copyists of the written religious/moral law], you will never enter the kingdom of God.” Confucius said it in his way, “Goody-goodies are the thieves of virtue.”

Organization

February 14th, 2005

Pattern and creativity
Are the two poles of action.

It is wise to plan each day. By setting goals for oneself and organizing activities to be accomplished, one can be sure that each day will be full and never wasted.

Followers of Tao use patterns when planning. They observe the ways of nature, perceive the invisible lines of destiny. They imagine a pattern for their entire lives, and in this way, they ensure overall success. Each day, they match interim patterns against their master goals, and so navigate life with sureness and grace. It is precisely this ability to discern and manipulate patterns unknown to the ordinary person that makes the follower of Tao so formidable.

When unpredictable things happen, those who follow Tao are also skilled at improvisation. If circumstances deny them, they change immediately. To avoid confusion, they still discern the patterns of the situation and create new ones, much like a chess player at the board. The spontaneous creation of new patterns is their ultimate art.

Deng Ming-Dao, 365 Tao

The third viewpoint of nature, and the one we will discuss at length here, is from the Chinese, who use the word Li, to describe nature as organic pattern, translated as the markings in jade, the grain in wood, and the fiber in muscle. All of it is just infinitely beautiful, flowing in all sorts of complicated patterns. There is an order to it, but you cannot put your finger on it. It simply cannot be measured or put into words or symbols. When you look at a cloud, it is not a cube, nor is it circular. It has no specific order to it that we can describe and yet it is perfect. Look at a tree, a mountain, or the foam on water when it hits the shoreline, even the stars; all amazingly beautiful, in all kinds of wild and crazy patterns. All of it has an order to it that we simply cannot measure or describe. This is Li – organic pattern.

The Tao is not something different from nature, the birds, the bees, the trees, or ourselves. The Tao is the way all that behaves. So the basic Chinese idea of the universe is that it is an organism. You cannot find the controlling center of it, because there isn’t any. Everything is a system of interrelated components, all interdependent on the other. Like bees and flowers; you will not find bees where there are no flowers, nor flowers where there are no bees or other insects that do their equivalent. Therefore though they look very different, they are in fact inseparable. They arise mutually. There is no cause and effect as we study with such veracity here in the west. Light and dark, high and low, sound and silence – all are only experienced in terms of their polar opposites.

http://www.yakrider.com/Tao/Taoism_Daoism.htm

For me, the world is about process. Whatever task you attempt, there is always a process of fulfilling that task. If you don’t define a process, then the process is simply random. But even randomness is itself a pattern.

Natural processes are somewhat predictable – the days of the year, the seasons, the time of sunrise and sunset, etc. For a woman, there’s the monthly flow. In some ways, I think maybe this atunes women more to process. But we are all creatures of habit, to some extent, and have certain patterns in our lives.

When things are not going well, the trick is to look for the pattern that is going on, and find a way to change it. When things are aligned the way you want them to be, the trick is to be mindful of any discrepancies in the pattern you are trying to create or follow.

But Tao and life are about change. The real ability is to be able to adapt to those changes and alter your plans based on those changes.

Stretching

February 13th, 2005

When young, things are soft.
When old, things are brittle.

Stretching — both literally and metaphorically — is a necessary part of life.

Physically, a good program of stretching emphasizes all parts of the body. You loosen the joints and tendons first, so that the subsequent movements will not hurt. Then methodically stretch the body, beginning with the larger muscle groups such as the legs, and back, and proceed to finder and smaller parts like the fingers. Coordinate stretching with breathing, use long and gentle stretches rather than bouncing ones. When you stretch in one direction, always be sure to stretch in the opposite direction as well. If you follow this procedure, your flexibility will undoubtedly increase.

Metaphorical stretching leads to expansion and flexibility in personal growth. A young plant is tender and pliant. An older one is stiff, woody, and vulnerable to breaking. Softness is thus equated with life, hardness with death. The more flexible you are, the greater your mental and physical health.

Deng Ming-Dao, 365 Tao

“Truth is within ourselves; it takes no rise
From outward things, whate’er you may believe.
There is an inmost centre in us all,
Where truth abides in fulness; and around,
Wall upon wall, the gross flesh hems it in,
This perfect, clear perception – which is truth.
A baffling and perverting carnal mesh
Binds it, and makes all error: and to KNOW
Rather consists in opening out a way
Whence the imprisoned splendour may escape,
Than in effecting entry for a light
Supposed to be without.”

From “Paracelsus” by Robert Browning

Keeping flexible in body and mind keeps us young. I do a lot of yoga and Pilates, lots of stretching for my body. Recently I find myself doing stretches I couldn’t do a few months ago. So as I stretch, I am increasing my ability to stretch even further, opening up to even more possibilities.

I try to do the same with my mind, reading new and different ideas, things from different cultures and new perspectives. But I need to stretch my mind more – it’s gotten a bit lazy lately.

So how does the Browning quote tie in here? Imprisoned splendour – I just love that phrase… so many people spend their time looking for some light from without, when by stretching their ideas of who they are and their relationship to God or the universe or whatever, they might find the light is really within them, waiting to be revealed.

Boxer on Social Security

February 12th, 2005

U.S. SENATOR BARBARA BOXER | Newsroom

We should not forget that Social Security is not just a retirement policy. It is an life insurance policy. It is a disability insurance policy.

So in summary, I am making seven points here today.

1. There is no crisis in Social Security. Scare tactics are being used to frighten the American people in an attempt to end Social Security.

2. Privatization is being pushed as a solution, when in fact, private accounts push Social Security over the edge.

3. The White House is following an ideological blue print that has been around for decades as the right-wing has been planning to end Social Security, in their own words, for six decades.

4. If privatization succeeds, the average retirement benefit would be cut by 45 percent.

5. There is a very wealthy coalition working now to end Social Security – because they would make tremendous financial gains with private accounts.

6. The people over 55 should not be lulled into believing that they are safe from this ax, which is being wielded against Social Security.

7. Because Social Security is much more than a retirement plan, widows and orphans and disabled workers will be in an economic free fall.

I am asking every Californian to go to my website – www.boxer.senate.gov – to sign my Social Security petition and stand with me in fighting to protect, preserve, and defend Social Security for all Americans.

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Go read the whole thing, and go sign. Thank you to my Senator, Barbara Boxer!

On Walking

February 11th, 2005

On Walking

On Walking

by Bill Bunting

How shall I best interpret Tao? How will I explain the teachings of Tao? How will I describe Tao? How can I communicate where Tao is to another person? The answer, almost obvious, is that I cannot. At the very best all anyone can do is try to shine a light on the path, and walk. If someone else joins us while we walk, and walks with us for a while then we have company, if not, we walk alone, but still we walk. On this path, there are no busses, no cars, not even a bicycle, it is strictly a foot path. There are many, many souls who having lost their way sit along the edge of the path, and sometimes one of those souls is me. Then one day, after a rest, some meditation, a gentle word, a small kindness, I get up again and I walk.

What’s the point? Why all of this walking? It is simply because Tao only can be found in the journey that is in the walking. Tao, true, real, permanent, nameless Tao cannot be found in any book, or in any school.

The ancient masters knew this, and Lao Tzu warned us as well. When we bury ourselves in academics or esoterica we lose Tao. As we give ourselves over to grappling with interpretation, we lose meaning. It is very easy to become lost in the trap of over analysis and pointless bickering, when what really matters is the walk. Even the path becomes unimportant if no one can find it.

Tao in Conflict Resolution

February 10th, 2005

Win Without Fighting, (June 1998)

An article with many good points on resolving conflict:

First, to master the power of Tao, people should understand its meanings. Although most people have translated the term “Tao” as synonymous with the “path” or the “way,” the term’s original meanings in the Chinese language is much broader and also refers to “alternatives,” “choice(s),” “connection(s),” and “road(s),” among others. The best one-word interpretation of Tao is “alternatives,” because “Tao” refers to the ultimate reality or truth (Lao Tzu, Chapters 16 and 25), or all alternative relations and patterns governing the operation of the universe and people’s interaction with nature and with one another.

Subjectively, Tao always denotes a higher level of understanding of the world or action that can brings people out of the current mental or situational impasse or quandary. Lao Tzu also refers to it as “Te.” In addition, translating “Tao” as “alternatives” can better epitomize the profuse Taoist notions, which comprise two intrinsically related themes.

The first one is “Reversal is the movement of Tao” (Lao Tzu, Chapter 40). For example, the development and transformation of the universe can be characterized as the two complementary, interdependent phases of yin and yang, alternating in space and time. When things develop to extremes, they will evolve in the opposite directions.

The other Taoist central idea maintains that “Weakness is the Usage of Tao” (ibid.). The best embodiment of this axiom is water. People may obtain the cognizance of Tao by contemplating water. The highest good is like water, not only because water is good at benefiting the myriad creatures, but also because water, which is nurturing, soft, weak, and flexible, can vanquish hard and strong obstacles by selecting alternatives to reach its goals. As water does not compete, nobody can compete with it (Lao Tzu, Chapters 8 and 78).

Understanding the operation of Tao in the universe has three implications for mental health:

People experience frustrations and inner conflicts because their perceptions and actions are “unfit” for the reality, whereas interpersonal harmony and inner peace are based on the awareness of Tao (the alternative relations) and on the manners that are congruous with the knowledge.

Everything in the universe, including people’s cognition and actions, is constantly involved in the changing and developmental processes, interacting with each other. Individuals who understand Tao are those who understand how things will develop without active interference in their natural courses. They know how to borrow the powers of all alternative factors (social, natural, external, psychological, etc.) to reach inner peace and interpersonal consonance.

Different actions result from the actor’s degree of understanding of the alternatives in the situation, because people’s choices of actions or perceptions in the world are fettered by their knowledge of Tao that regulates the nature and people. Often, people are embroiled in interpersonal conflicts not because they have evil motivations, but because they don’t know how to think or act alternatively in dealing with others.

Second, perfect mental health also depends upon interacting partners’ understanding of the self and the other(s) who possess either accurate understanding or distorted perceptions about the interpersonal reality. The Tao-consistent understanding involves correct cognizance of each other’s strengths, weaknesses, possible choices in the interaction — the impacts of the self upon the other — and the awareness of where you can correct the other’s misrepresentation of the interpersonal reality.

The accurate or distorted perceptions of each other will determine whether the partners in a conflict can reach harmony and enjoy the interaction. Individuals cannot think of you as you are and interact with you in an appropriate way if they have distorted cognition about how you evaluate them and your explanations for your interpersonal actions.

If you want others to accept your messages, you must invalidate their distorted perceptions and confirm their communications that are true.

For example, because one side’s behavior toward the other depends upon the target’s reactions to be realized, the continuation of interpersonal interactions or conflicts relies on the participants’ validation of each other’s actions or perceptions. According to Taoism, a person in a conflict situation may minimize the dissension by using alternatives that can transcend or invalidate the perceptions or expectations of the opponent who exacerbates the situation. People should apply calm to subdue the obstreperous (Sun Tzu, Chapter 7) and utilize stillness to overcome heat (ibid., Chapter 45).

An interacting strategy appropriate for one person may not be suitable for the other. According to the theory of five elements associated with I Ching practices, for example, water can overcome fire and produce wood, but water is vulnerable to earth. Although, in general, Taoism emphasizes the unity among people, not all people can match one another. If you select a wrong target, detachment may be the best choice.

Third, Taoism views people as a microcosm or small universe that is a part of, and the corollary to, the large universe (macrocosm). The Taoist concepts of mental health and higher consciousness are intimately associated with the awareness of how Tao operates in the universe, in human interactions, and within individuals. Various indicators of mental health, such as the ability to handle any type of uncertainty, self-confidence and self-esteem, inner peace and tranquility, tolerance, the sense of fulfillment and oneness with the universe and other people, can all be derived from the awareness of powers of Tao that influence the self and others’ lives and from the capacity to understand the self-frustrations and negative experiences as a result of not using alternatives.

A portion of psychopathology can be attributed to the imbalance in the way people’s brains metabolize certain neurotransmitters based on the pharmaceutical model. However, most mental illnesses are associated with a profound sense of lack of control over one’s life or anything that one does, the distrust of other people, a sense of disconnectedness, and a loss of confidence in others.

According to the traditional Chinese medical theory, when the parts of the bodily system are connected, there is no pain; if there is a pain, there must be a blockage. This idea can also be used to explain and treat mental illnesses. Mental conflicts result when there is a desire to reach harmony but a perceived lack of capacity to reach oneness. An effective treatment for mental illnesses should offer a new comprehension about how to unlearn past hurts and offer Taoist ways to help clients feel connected.

– Key Sun, Ph.D., M.S.W. is a counselor and scholar in social psychology, Taoist psychology, and traditional Chinese healing arts

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I’ve certainly felt that desire to reach harmony and not being able to, and yes, it did lead to mental distress for me. I’ve resolved those issues within myself now, except for a wistful feeling that I still sometimes wish I could resolve things with those people who cut me off.

Perhaps it is that feeling that still keeps me searching the path of Tao. Within myself, I feel I’ve reached inner peace at times, but in interpersonal relationships, I still have a good long ways to travel. But then, even the Dalai Lama doesn’t seem to be able to resolve things with China. Sometimes, the other simply doesn’t want things resolved, and there is nothing you can do, so yes, detachment from the emotional issues that surround them is best. If people prefer conflict or detachment and aloneness to being part of Tao and the universe as a whole, I guess there is little one can do to reach them. I don’t mind so much that others detached from me at those points in my life, but to not be willing to work things out later seems heartless to me. There is an element to those kind of people that I still do not fully understand, but perhaps it is simply so alien an idea to me that I cannot comprehend it.

Solar Chimney in Australia – Very cool.

February 9th, 2005

Alternative Energy Blog – Alternate-Energy.org: Site Agreed for Australian Solar Tower, Plans for Solar Tower in China

The firm behind the plan to build a power-generating solar tower (also described as a solar chimney) – touted as the world’s tallest structure – in Outback New South Wales is to sign an agreement to buy the site.

Melbourne-based Enviromission will buy a 10,000ha slice of Tapio station at Buronga, 25km northeast of Mildura, to build the 1km tower.