I wonder why people get upset at being called selfish when they haven’t spoken to me in months or years. DO they think I should think of them in some other way? It’s pretty hard to have a dialog with someone who does such a thorough job of shutting you out of their life. And then objects to being called selfish and uncaring for it.

Huh. I give up trying to understand people. At least, those who insist on living on their own planet, and being unwilling to share it with the rest of us.